I was supposed to attend System training in Malacca, West Malaysia today. It was a full day seminar from 9am to 6pm. But due to unforeseen circumstances, I wasn’t able to be there. I need to attend to some urgent family matters which are more important than the seminar. For me, missing a seminar is not as hurt as hurting the needs of my family members. At the end of the day, when you are in the situation that need someone to talk to, it will be your close family member or your “friends” that will be there to help you. Again, it’s up to you to decide which is best for you.

This situation clearly shows that I’m  just one human being that can only planned what I want, but whether I go through or achieve it is beyond my jurisdiction. You cannot predict what’s going to happen in the future, you can’t control what’s going to happen to your plan; but you can help yourselves to attract reasonable outcome in fulfilling your dreams and desires. It’s the Law of Attraction! The Universe is created by the Almighty. He is the Creator! You definitely cannot dictate the futures. But again, you can plan and be responsible for what you want to have in life. Shape up your destiny.

In Network Marketing, you draw up the plan as to what you want to see and achieve. You know it better than other people because I doubt you’ll tell everything about you to your working uplines. There will be some areas where you do not want others to know. Even if you’re married, there probably a time when you do not want your life partner to know about certain matters; so what’s so special about other people?

Your uplines may help you in the business; they can help you to map out your business plan because they are experience in the industry; moreover, your working uplines are part of a good network marketing system; but my advice to you, don’t let them dictate your life, and you must be able to act firm at the right time. You must be able to say NO to something that go against your will especially your faith.

Sometimes you feel very difficult to say No to others. To the extend that by doing this, you feel that you’ve hurt others! (eventhough by saying yes you are actually make yourselve unhappy, hurt and miserable). You’re wrong! You must learn to reject others because in this industry, you are going to be rejected over and over again. Rejecting something that go against your will and faith is a must! There’s no compromise. If you strongly feel that attending a certain seminar or meeting is a waste of time, then don’t go. Don’t try to please someone by attending when your heart is not with it. Just do something that you love and have passion doing it. You will grow and subsequently improve yourselve.

Do not cheat others! By saying Yes to please others is not a good idea. How long can you do it (pleasing others)? Do consider to change, as you never know that by saying NO – from the bottom of your heart – could actually change other people lives. As a trainer, I cannot please all my students. As a Network Marketer, I cannot say Yes to all my prospects. The concept that customers are always right can only be accepted if they are really right! Nowadays, intellectual marketing distribution is being practiced in the industry, as such more information are actually being explained to the customers if they want to buy products or involved in network marketing.

Network Marketing is a challenging but manageable business franchise if you have faith in doing it. You must know when, where and how to say a Yes or No. Saying Yes is not that hard, but you must learn to say No at the Right Time. It’s for your own good.

Talk to you soon,

Jailani

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