Multi-Level Marketing(MLM) or Network Marketing was introduced to me by chance when a friend of mine wanted me to purchase some products from Malaysia way back in 1998. He kept on stressing on the goodness of the products; but stated that they could not be found on the shelves of any shops in SG.
After the first meeting with him (products presentation), he kept on calling me to ask whether I was ready to get the products as he was going to the company situated in our neighbouring country to get the stocks. He further elaborated that because the products were so good that he managed to get repeated customers. He mentioned few names that I’ve known. Btw, he did not even asked me whether how I felt about the products and whether I was interested in them.
I then finally decided to buy not because of the products but I want to maintain my friendship with him. He asked me for my personal details and told me that I need to be a member of the company in order to buy the products. I was stunned! In the first place I was not even highlighted that I must be a member to have the products. The best part of it, these was informed after I gave him the money! He confidently said that he will settled the first year membership fees. Again, due to friendship, I just controlled myself.
The products were delivered to me as promised. I was given the company profile, some documents, and a membership card and was advised to keep them in a safe place. He simply went "missing" after that. The next month he appeared again and this time he brought along products that I’ve never ordered! He told me to pay for it. Again, I was stunned! He told me that as an active member I have to purchase products every month!
Now, what will you do if you are in this position. What will your impression about MLM or Network Marketing. Will you be angry and felt cheated? This bad experiences can actually killed off a person interest in Network Marketing. But not me…..
My first experiences were a painful one. However, during that time I was actually an employee – meaning I rely heavily on my pay checks every month. During that time I was still working in the hospitality industries and I felt that my job has becoming such a routine. There was nothing for me to learn or upgrade in the profession I was in. I did the same tasks day-in day-out. Even though I was supposed to work from 9 to 5, I never really enjoyed the stipulated time. I will normally be back home at about 11pm and back in office as early as 7.30am. I actually wanted to move on to another industries. At that time the use of the computer and Internet were the in things. (Back to my MLM experience…)
My network marketing friend has actually introduced me to a new industry. I knew that there was something good about it, but since I was experiencing the bad ones, I just kept this inside my mind; hold it and told myself that I will give it a thought when the day comes.
Meanwhile, I left the job and managed to find an office hour work. Why? I decided to further my studies and enrolled in a private computer school for 2 years.
During these 2 years, I encountered another bad experience with another friend in another MLM company. Do you think I give up? Nope. These experiences made me more attracted to Network Marketing. What I need was someone to show me the ‘lights’…
Jailani
PS. Since the year 2000, I have been in and out of many MLM or Network Marketing companies. If you want to succeed, stay with the company that have a system to guide you to do the business, not only distributing products.
I’ve tested and experienced many traditional MLM Systems. While some of them are good and workable depending on how you looked at it, there are many which are "sucks" and "carbon-copied" from other systems, and claimed to be theirs. Anyone has the right to claim, etc. etc. etc., but we as a user, have more right to choose which system can bring us success. ….. (more sharing on my next posting).